Hey there, Reader,

I was on a call with one of my peer coaches (because yes, coaches need coaches too), just talking through a few things that had been sitting heavy in my mind.

I wasn’t looking for some big revelation, just trying to get unstuck, but then she said, “You might be playing the victim in this triangle.”

And my brain went: Dang. You’re right.

Here’s why that landed so hard: I’d been quietly waiting to be invited in, waiting for someone else to see my value. But the moment she said that, I realized, I don’t need an invitation. I get to bring my own chair to the table. To walk in knowing why I matter and what I bring.

Maybe you’ve felt this too, like you’re on the outside looking in, convinced it’s someone else’s fault you weren’t included. But what if that moment isn’t rejection… it’s redirection? A reminder to shift from victim to creator.

No big finish here. Just something that’s been sitting with me in case it lands for you too.

Lost your power? Lost your voice? Here’s your invitation to understand why, get clear, and make your move.

👉 Schedule your Power Session here.

Grab your chair Reader, we’re going to the party.

Kourtney

P.S. Writing this made me laugh because my kitchen table is literally covered in Legos right now. Maybe that’s the real metaphor: build the table you want to sit at.